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Tantra Education
For some clients this is the path. Tantra is about learning to achieve a state of consciousness that lifts you to feel abundant and powerful, regardless of your daily circumstances. It's a simple meditation practice that takes a little time to learn. Imagine being able to alter your state of mind at will and being able to recreate this experience whenever you need a lift.
The ancient ones knew these Tantric secrets and lived by them. For them, it was a religion. For modern Westerners it's a way to experience love and sex more deeply. As you become familiar with this knowledge, you will notice yourself feeling all your feelings more deeply. As you become truly present within your body, you become a witness to your own natural sexual state, experiencing your sexuality as an unfolding rather than focusing on your, or your partner's arousal. There is less thinking about what to do sexually. From moment to moment you experience yourself just being ecstatic. All pressure about performance disappears. You and your partner simply blend and dance together.
But Tantra isn't only about sex! You might begin to live in a constant state of contentedness every day, finding new subtle joys in all your daily interactions. You may become aware of subtleties in people around you, things you hadn't noticed before. You may begin to notice the stillness of each moment in the midst of all your activities. You may wonder why you didn't embark on this journey sooner.
With a client who is brand new to Tantra, I need to start at the beginning. Tantra is a belief, a way of life from the Far East that utilizes sexual energy to ignite one's inner being. As with other Eastern philosophies, Tantra employs a meditation practice that helps to slow us down, teaches us to be in the present, and is a way to nurture oneself. When we combine our sexual energy with this meditation, we are able to transcend into another plane perhaps more quickly than with other kinds of meditation.
I sit with students in this meditation, demonstrating the exercises with my body, and leading the way with my breathing. As we begin to breathe as one, I lead the student to tune inside to his own center. It's from that place that we allow ourselves be filled, from the inside out, with an ecstatic energy. I guide the student in moving this electric energy up from the genitals into the rest of the body. We may be visualizing different images, but the mutual energy we create is powerful.
This practice can be done by oneself, but it is decidedly easier to feel the charge when practicing with another person. For people with sexual performance issues, this practice lifts you out of your anxiety into a new realm. Once we are ignited, once we begin to feel ourselves transcend our everyday lives into another plane, our intention is to stay there. We allow ourselves to float into a state of perfect tranquility. In that place, the mind finally relaxes. Images come to us easily and our creativity is stimulated. We begin to be aware of our partner as equally as we are aware of ourselves, and we begin to recognize that there isn't any difference between the two of us. This realization has us feel a profound sense of unity with all things, including being connected to the Universal Source. From this powerful place, all things are possible, and great shifts can take place in one's life.
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